The Debate: Should Your Dog Sleep in Your Bed?
Author: Vejay Anand
Have you ever experienced the shock of someone's horrified gasp upon discovering that your dog shares your bed? Whether to let your canine companion into the bedroom at night is a topic that sparks heated debates among dog owners. Before deciding, it's crucial to carefully weigh the pros and cons, as there is no definitive right or wrong answer.
Companionship vs. Comfort
It's estimated that nearly half of all dog owners allow their furry friends to sleep in their bed or bedroom, according to a 2017 article published in the journal Human Nature. This practice may raise concerns, but for many, the comfort and contentment it brings often outweigh the potential drawbacks.
A Disrupted Slumber?
Sharing a bed with any creature can disrupt your sleep. Bed partners are prone to tossing and turning, creating noise that can wake you from your slumber. Dogs have their distinct sleep patterns, which might conflict with your own. Those early morning wake-up calls from your dog's enthusiasm to start the day are all too familiar. However, there are benefits to cuddling up with your canine companion at night.
A 2018 study published in the Anthrozoos Journal suggested that women who shared their beds with dogs often enjoyed better sleep and felt more security and comfort than sharing a bed with a human partner. If you have a new puppy or a rescue dog, allowing them to sleep in your bedroom initially may lead to less disturbance, as they tend to settle better in your company. However, transitioning to a different sleeping arrangement may be challenging later on, so it's wise to establish a consistent routine from the start.
Health Concerns?
Some express concerns about the hygiene of having dogs in bed and the potential risk of zoonotic diseases—illnesses that can transfer from animals to humans. This risk is relatively low when your dog is well-groomed, receives regular veterinary check-ups, and is protected with appropriate parasitic preventatives. It's worth noting that two-thirds of human diseases are reverse-zoonotic, meaning they can be passed from humans to animals. Therefore, perhaps your dog has a reason to be concerned as well.
Dominance and Possession
A common belief suggests that allowing a dog to sleep on your bed could lead to dominance issues, a theory rooted in the debunked "Alpha Pack" mentality of dog behavior. Although your dog may not be vying for dominance, they might become possessive of the comfortable bed. This possessiveness can manifest as growling when someone approaches, be it another pet, your partner, or a child. It's crucial not to tolerate such behavior.
Teach your dog that relinquishing what they're guarding brings rewards, such as a tasty treat or a bonus from your partner. If not addressed appropriately, resource guarding can escalate, so consulting a qualified behaviorist is advisable if you have concerns.
When Separate Sleeping Makes Sense
Opting to have your dog sleep elsewhere is acceptable, provided you remain consistent. Ensure your dog has a comfortable, dedicated space, and reward them for using it. Separate sleeping arrangements may be particularly suitable in specific situations.
Puppy Toilet Training: When housetraining a puppy, there's a chance of accidents on your bed, which can disrupt your sleep. Using a crate for your pup provides a contained space for potential accidents, making cleanup more manageable and minimizing access to chewable items. Placing the box in your bedroom allows your dog to remain close.
